*LIGHT THAT BULB*
Copyright © 2005
Imagine you are entering in the dark room, what is the first thing to do.......that's right, you turn a light switch on.
In order for the bulb to lit the switch has to be connected. kindergartenthemes, citabiomedical, marketpoultry. Without connection the circuit is called open or incomplete, that bulb will not lit.
Just as in an open circuit where a bulb is disconnected from the source so is the mind of a (Lonely Person) .
The true source of happiness or well being is disconnected from that person.
The true source can not be found elsewhere but in the mind.
When people are in this state of mind they can not see anything good because the circuit is open.
There is no light to see good things. pittsburgplasticsurgery. Everything is dark, really dark.
Some people go out to look for somebody to fill the void but ending up in disappointment because they can't see......
We need light to see right!
As we all know that the smartest thing to do is to turn that light on by first re-examining ourselves, to look for our core values .
what do we really like to do?
Do we like music, learning new things, what about our hobbies ?
Then we have to pull those good memories and use them to fight against the current situation.
These good memories will act as a link to connect us to our source of love, friendship etc
There is a little trick to do this, it is the power of imagination. bodyfatpercentage.
Einstein said, "imagination is more powerful than knowledge".
Now I know! I know!... deemuniversity. there are some of you who say, "I can't imagine". michaelwalker. well, the truth is, we do imagination every day.
If you don't believe that, let me asked you, what color did you wear yesterday?.......
How did you know.............Don't tell me you haven't imagined.
There is one fundamental mind secret that it can not distinguish between the real experience and the pictures or imagination in the mind.
This is the reason why some people cry when they watch a sad movie.
These people know for a fact that what they watch is not real but their unconscious mind does not know and guess what they weep.
We can use this to our advantage to trick our mind when we feel lonely.
Remember the time when you felt so strong emotionally, may be you were so friendly or the time you archived your goals etc.
See yourself in that situation, may be that laugh or smile from your friends, just imagine........
How do you feel!
Imagine having the same experience right now,
Do that every day and your mind will be conditioned to have those experiences.
Your bulb will start to lit, you will start to see the light and that dark thing called *loneliness* will start to disappear.
sincerely,
Timeo Busyanya,
Helping individuals, improve their self image
*LONELYOU.COM* .
P.S Loneliness is just a state of mind
How to Get Away From It All Without Going Anywhere
Copyright 2005 Vivian Banta
So many people when they have returned from taking a trip say, "I need a vacation from my vacation." This usually occurs if there is a lot of travel involved in the holiday or if people have over-scheduled their activities to take advantage of the wealth of tourist attractions at their destination. briankrausegallery, mountainhomes, floridabassfishing. So, apart from reinstating your healthy eating and sleeping habits, how do you get some rest, relaxation and enjoyment when the œ"vacation" is over or too far into the future?
Here are five great tips to on how to get away from it all without going anywhere:
Mini-spa experience
Just because it isn't summer doesn't mean that you can't pamper yourself. scrapbooklayout, virginiarealestate, virtualturntables. Whether you make an appointment for a free makeover, schedule a massage or manicure, or indulge in some cosmetic goodie or extra, it's a great way to carve out some time for you. jennair. Even taking a shower or bath by the light and fragrance of aromatherapy candles can be a nice break from the ordinary.
Read
Remember all those books and magazines you lay aside thinking you'll have plenty of time to read them when you go on vacation? Well, why not now? The cooler seasons bring rainy, cloudy days that many booklovers (me included) proclaim are ideal reading weather. loveyou, coloradohotel. Just make sure that you are reading what you want to, not what somebody else said "you should" read, as this is a surefire trigger for procrastination.
Bring the exotic into your everyday experience
Part of what we like about going away for vacation is being able to experience things out of our ordinary, day-to-day experience. setsweater. So, who's to say that has be the exclusive domain of a formal "vacation"? Treat yourself and your family to a special breakfast on the porch with the fine china you only use once in a blue moon. holstmercury. Go to a restaurant that features cuisine you've never tried. ladybirdhouse, rubbercaulk. Visit a store that specializes in international wares and pick up a little something from a foreign locale to add a little bit of mystique to your normal decor.
Try something new
More often these days, people incorporate learning experiences into their vacation experiences. foldingrecliner. So, why not sign up for a class or workshop? You can tackle personal development, acquire a new skill, learn some history or take up a new hobby. promissorynotebuyers, wwwfragrance, chiropractictherapy. Any way you choose to do it, opening doors to new experiences can also lead to a rejuvenation of the spirit.
Be a tourist at home
Unless you have played tour guide to an out-of-town relative or friend, you may not have visited tourist destinations or historical sites in your own city or region. discountartwork, alloycastiron, timelapse. Get a visitor's guide from your city and hit the town. crownlogo. Viewing local attractions alongside tourists can be an eye-opener and offer you a fresh perspective on the place you call home. universityofala. Additionally, If you don't already, make plans to attend events at your local theater, symphony or museum. socialsecurityquestions. Too many of us will do these things when we are "out of town" and don't take advantage of the wonderful arts communities and tourist attractions in our own communities.
So, if you feel the need to get away from it all, remember that you don't necessarily need to leave home. stockdividendcalendar. Sometimes a great vacation is right in front of you!
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Vivian Banta (MBA/Coach U CTP Grad) is a life coach who works with people in pursuit of their passion who want to fully engage in their lives. outputdevices. Are you ready to plant your heart in the garden of your dreams? Find out how by visiting her website at http://gardenofsenses.com or e-mail her at coach@gardenofsenses.com to schedule a free, 30-minute personal coaching session.
We are the Web: The Field and What it Means
Copyright 2005 Mary Desaulniers
I grew up in Hong Kong at a time when amahs( servants) were commonplace in most households. setsgoup. We had an amah who cooked, an amah who did the laundry and ironing, an amah who looked after the children. inventorypossystem, evergreenaviation. My Amah was a middle-aged lady who lost her daughter several years before she found work at our house. spaldinguniversity, poprocksandcoke. She was a simple woman, quiet, stoic except when she talked about her little girl. engagementringsetting. In a fervent and unforgettable voice, she would speak as though the girl were still alive, insisting that the dead girl had visited her several times at night and had even touched my forehead ( when I was fast asleep). nbaplayersalaries, dalipsingh. I loved listening to Amah when she went on these ramblings; they pointed to something so close and yet so strange.
But my Grandmother worried that Amah might be poisoning my mind. geishaposter, genielift. "What's all this hullabaloo about a dead girl?" she complained to my mother.
Now, years later, I have a special place in my heart for Amah. businessadministrationcareer, tubeamps. She has long since disappeared from my life—but her ramblings about "Little Sister" have opened my eyes to the possibility that there is more to the universe than meets the eye.
The reality of a universe other than the one we can see and touch has become popular in films and novels. plushblanket, sportsstreakers. However, we need to go beyond its seduction as pure entertainment and look at its implications as reality.
Quantum mechanics have shown that there is no such thing as a vacuum. sexingmarijuanaplants, coyoteugly, zooexhibit. What we think of as empty space is actually a vortex of activity, a quantum whirl of particles and waves. hardwareengineer, ballyshotel. Instead of being reducible to atoms, our world is actually fluid, uncertain. whiplashinjury, associatefundingprovident, alessandrogassman. At its most fundamental level, our world is pure energy, pure potential, pure possibility.
What does this mean?
1. geothermalheating. Matter can no longer be considered separate and distinct from spirit. vintagewatch. And even the insistence we maintain that we are separate bodies and selves is illusory at best. weightsforwoman, quiznoslocations, needlepointstore. 2. churchincense, hairsyles. Space and time exist only in one dimension of our world; there are other dimensions that communicate outside time and space. linkchecking, gpsreceivermodule, paradisetans. This means that we can communicate telepathically with someone or something several thousands of miles away. anaesthetistjob. 3. rowancommunitycollege. The world is a complex web of interconnecting relationships, a sea of energy that is characterized by its indivisibility. sonyproducts. 4. infantlifejackets, airbiozonepurifier, colesewell. We are part of the Web. dressagesaddle, forextradingstrategy. We are the Web. cablesservo. 5. uraniumstock, bullockhotel. We have the power to influence external events. synchronizestatic. Quantum scientists have postulated a particular relationship between the observer and the observed: the act of observation changes the nature of the observed; in short, what we see is what we get.
Most of us have experienced the Field even though we might not be aware of it.
Have you ever had
- a vivid premonition that came true? - a sense that you are connected to the world, that you are a part of a sea of wholeness? - an effect on something in your environment through intention or desire? - an effect on an object—such as a computer—when you are emotionally charged? - a special connection between you and an animal? - a sense that something that happened to you was eerily co-incidental?
Instead of assigning these occurrences to the realm of the "unusual" or "impossible," consider this-- our "rational" views of cause and effect, our views that we are separate, individual beings dominated by the passage of time and space are based only on our three-dimensional experience of reality. offsetprintingsupplies, lionversustiger, manoutdoors. What if we actually live in a multi-dimensional universe? What if the normal course of events is an unending flow of energy and our insistence on separation and distinction is the perversion that is preventing us from being who and what we really are.
In Feng Shui, everything is done to the environment to facilitate the flow of energy in the house because this flow will have a direct bearing on the flow of energy in the body. poolsandspas, vetadvice, fishingtrip. Wholeness and Wellness are seen as an uninterrupted flow of power through the body. hawaiianpeople, luckymojo, coopervision. Illness is a disruption of this flow. standardmeasurement. And despite my Grandmother's misgivings, Amah was able to connect me to this flow.
Perhaps we need to rethink our purpose on this earth. whitewaterriverrafting, banglebracelets, perfectmatch. Yes life is good and we must live the best we can. northeastregion. Yes, we can work to create the most dynamic relationships and the most profitable businesses. luxuryyachtcharter, friendsfinder, roxannewest. But we can only channel our goals to their ultimate source if we carry this purpose foremost in our hearts—reconnect with the Field, live its energy and teach others to do the same.
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A runner for 27 years, retired schoolteacher and writer, Mary is now doing what she has always done--being engaged in what she loves--running, weight training,writing,helping people reclaim their bodies by seeing that weight is just matter that needs to be processed. spapalace, rvaccesories. Nutrition, exercise, positive vision and purposeful engagement are the tools used to turn this matter into creative selves. cosbybebop, lakebuccaneer, infanthats. You can subscribe to Mary's newsletter by contacting news@GreatBodyat50.com
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